You don’t own your partner. Kill the possessiveness in your relationship.
Once I got settled into my new crib following the dissolution of my marriage, one of the first things I did was set up my “divorce gift” to myself: an appointment to get a tattoo inspired by Swiss painter H.R. Giger on my right inner forearm. Outside of sucking up the last real estate I had left on either arm, the tattoo was symbolic as …